Re: Husband FORBIDS bee from quitting 2nd job I had a really shitty job right out of college that was taking a serious toll on me, and I was only working 40 hours a week. I begged J to quit his absolutely awful job while I was unemployed and still in school, because it was killing him. He DID try to get another job, but the staffing agency told him that he had to quit that one before they'd look, but we found out pretty quickly that a) that was a huge lie, and b) if you don't want to work for that specific employer, they don't give a fuck about you. He ended up going back to school and gets to focus on that. It's not ideal, but I started a better job right after he went back, and when he graduates in 2015, it should double our income.