A did this thing where he’ll say “don’t yell at me!” When I am talking in a normal speaking voice. I had many times told him it pissed me off because saying something he didn't want to hear was not the equivalent of yelling. I had to SNAP and was like “THIS IS YELLING! DO YOU HEAR THIS? IS THIS WHAT I WAS DOING?” and then he got it. I told him if it happened again I was gonna start recording our convos. Serious pet peeve of mine- just because you don’t wanna hear it it listen doesn’t mean I’m yelling/being bitchy.