Looks like we’ll be transferring a boy embryo next week! I went into my pre-op appointment yesterday armed with a list of questions to help me decide and my RE took me completely off guard when she let me know that I don’t actually get to choose! I guess it’s their policy that they just use the highest rated embryo regardless. Which never occurred to me since my last clinic let you pick. I was pretty surprised and I spent a few hours wallowing in having the choice taken from me but now I’m over it and feeling pretty excited - yay boy! I know my highest rated embryo has a perfect rating so fingers firmly crossed he nestles right in. I’m pretty worried about it because so much of IVF with endo is just doing your best and hoping it works (there’s not a lot known about exactly wtf endo is doing to prevent you from getting/staying pregnant). But I feel like we’ve truly done everything possible for this cycle between the months of Lupron, the surgery, the endometrial “scratch” etc. so all I can do now is hope. In about 3 weeks I’ll be peeing on sticks!