My best friend was/is pregnant, but it appears to be ectopic or otherwise not a healthy pregnancy, so they gave her meds to induce a miscarriage It’s been a roller coaster because she was doing an imperfect version of rhythm method with her husband and wasn’t really totally ready, but in mid-December she was bleeding and had a positive pregnancy test, felt like something was wrong, and she went in and told she was miscarrying. Then she came to visit and we drank and smoked weed a bunch. But then she went back to the doctor and were like never mind, you’re not miscarrying! She was worried and frustrated but excited. Her HCG numbers were increasing, but not quite doubling. All they could see in an ultrasound was increased uterine lining. Over Christmas, she told her parents, sister, and husband’s parents, who were all really excited about it. Last night she went to the ER because of pain and that’s when the call to end it was made. I love her so much and I feel so bad for her. I’m also disappointed because I was so excited about being pregnant at the same time as her, which is obviously still within the realm of possibility because I’m not even TTC quite yet, but if I do get pregnant before her, it makes telling her more loaded. But she already knows my TTC plans, we’re very close and have a very special friendship that I cherish and think few friendships rival. I want to get/do something for her but I’m not sure what, and the 400 mile distance makes it a little more complicated. I don’t think I’ll be able to visit her for at least 3 weeks. Suggestions anyone?