Sad thread: loss

Discussion in 'The Hens' Nest' started by Kimmers, Jun 20, 2018.

  1. Lucyinthesky

    Lucyinthesky Chicken

    I’m so sorry Scotch. You have several chickens who have been there, don’t hesitate to reach out if you need to. Sending you lots of love and hugs.
  2. Afishwish

    Afishwish Bramblebutt

    So sorry Scotch. Much love to you all right now.
  3. scotchbutter

    scotchbutter Chicken

    Thank you all. We know things will be okay again one day. It’s just so hard. We got a second opinion to verify which was not necessary but we’re glad we are very sure. The first appointment was just such a blur and the ultrasound was so incredibly fast. This one was more thorough and checked everything. Going to take misoprostol tonight. Second opinion doctor suggested I wait and see what happens naturally and D&C if needed since it’s so rough to take but emotionally I can’t bear possibly walking around for another 2-3 weeks like this. Ultrasound found no detachment or shedding progress and no spotting. Anyway, I know it’s going to be awful but it will be over eventually. Have tomorrow off work and the weekend to recover. We have help for E and J will be here for me.
  4. ClamJam

    ClamJam Chicken

    So much love to you, Scotch. I hope the process is as smooth as possible <3.
  5. virgo

    virgo Chicken

    I’m so sorry Scotch. <3
  6. Kimmers

    Kimmers Chicken

    Love to you Scotch. I’m here if you need a shoulder to cry on.
  7. megatron

    megatron Wordsmith

    I’m sorry, that’s so hard Scotch. I get not wanting to wait and see. It’s mentally just so hard, so I used the misoprostol for my second loss. I found the cramping to be really terrible with it, but heat and Tylenol helped a bit. Thinking of you. Please reach out if you need anything <3
  8. scotchbutter

    scotchbutter Chicken

    Many thanks to @Honey @Zombie Llama and the Chickens for the very thoughtful gifts. I’m laying in bed with the rose candle lit, thumbing through the cookbook. Looking forward to the lavender bath products too. Right now I’m focusing on E’s birthday party next weekend but after that I’ve decided to focus on making our home beautiful and experimenting more in the kitchen so it was perfect.

    This all sucks but it helps a lot knowing people care. <3
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  9. Zombie Llama

    Zombie Llama Ain't no corn bitch

  10. Honey

    Honey Historian Staff Member

    You’re welcome! Including a cookbook was @deet’s idea and she nailed it.
  11. scotchbutter

    scotchbutter Chicken

    So perfect too. For those who don’t know— “Cherry Bombe”: pretty photos and all recipes by badass ladies.
  12. scotchbutter

    scotchbutter Chicken

    Round 1 didn’t work. 24 hours later now trying again. UGH
  13. shakespeer

    shakespeer Basic Pirate Lesbian Aesthete

    That absolutely sucks. I have nothing more.

    If you want to talk, I’ll be up for a long while.
  14. Kimmers

    Kimmers Chicken

    That is horrific. Hoping this attempt goes as smoothly as possible for you.
  15. scotchbutter

    scotchbutter Chicken

    Finally started bleeding, which is a relief. I just wish it would happen faster. Like is it too much to ask to at least be able to control this of all things? Guarantee it doesn’t all come out and I have to get a D&C anyway. Oh well, one step at a time.
  16. megatron

    megatron Wordsmith

    I’m sorry scotch, hopefully this time gets it all. It’s a hard process to go through, physically and emotionally <3
  17. allmaple

    allmaple Chicken

    I am so very sorry scotch <3
  18. Fitz

    Fitz Leslie Knope Monster

    Scotch, I'm so sorry. That;s the last thing you need like now. Sending lots of love.
  19. fantasynerd

    fantasynerd Extra Extra

    My grandpa died and the grief is hitting me now. It feels like it was his time and it wasn’t out of the blue but I feel sad. He wasn’t perfect but he was always a kind and loving grandpa to me.
  20. Lh718

    Lh718 Chicken

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  21. hellohelloagain

    hellohelloagain Chicken

    So sorry for your loss
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  22. Kimmers

    Kimmers Chicken

    I’m sorry for your loss FN.
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  23. moose

    moose RINGWORM GIRL :(

    Sending you so much love FN.
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  24. Afishwish

    Afishwish Bramblebutt

    I’m sorry, FN. Even when you know it’s someone’s time, it’s still natural to feel the pain of what’s been lost.
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  25. Imabug1002

    Imabug1002 Chick pee

    I’m sorry for your loss.
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