Sad thread: loss

I’m so sorry Scotch. You have several chickens who have been there, don’t hesitate to reach out if you need to. Sending you lots of love and hugs.

 

So sorry Scotch. Much love to you all right now.

 

Thank you all. We know things will be okay again one day. It’s just so hard. We got a second opinion to verify which was not necessary but we’re glad we are very sure. The first appointment was just such a blur and the ultrasound was so incredibly fast. This one was more thorough and checked everything. Going to take misoprostol tonight. Second opinion doctor suggested I wait and see what happens naturally and D&C if needed since it’s so rough to take but emotionally I can’t bear possibly walking around for another 2-3 weeks like this. Ultrasound found no detachment or shedding progress and no spotting. Anyway, I know it’s going to be awful but it will be over eventually. Have tomorrow off work and the weekend to recover. We have help for E and J will be here for me.

 

So much love to you, Scotch. I hope the process is as smooth as possible .

 

I’m so sorry Scotch.

 

Love to you Scotch. I’m here if you need a shoulder to cry on.

 

I’m sorry, that’s so hard Scotch. I get not wanting to wait and see. It’s mentally just so hard, so I used the misoprostol for my second loss. I found the cramping to be really terrible with it, but heat and Tylenol helped a bit. Thinking of you. Please reach out if you need anything

 

Many thanks to @Honey @Zombie Llama and the Chickens for the very thoughtful gifts. I’m laying in bed with the rose candle lit, thumbing through the cookbook. Looking forward to the lavender bath products too. Right now I’m focusing on E’s birthday party next weekend but after that I’ve decided to focus on making our home beautiful and experimenting more in the kitchen so it was perfect.

This all sucks but it helps a lot knowing people care.

 

@scotchbutter you are very welcome.

 

So perfect too. For those who don’t know— “Cherry Bombe”: pretty photos and all recipes by badass ladies.

 

Round 1 didn’t work. 24 hours later now trying again. UGH

 

That absolutely sucks. I have nothing more.

If you want to talk, I’ll be up for a long while.

 

That is horrific. Hoping this attempt goes as smoothly as possible for you.

 

Finally started bleeding, which is a relief. I just wish it would happen faster. Like is it too much to ask to at least be able to control this of all things? Guarantee it doesn’t all come out and I have to get a D&C anyway. Oh well, one step at a time.

 

I’m sorry scotch, hopefully this time gets it all. It’s a hard process to go through, physically and emotionally

 

I am so very sorry scotch

 

Scotch, I'm so sorry. That;s the last thing you need like now. Sending lots of love.

 

My grandpa died and the grief is hitting me now. It feels like it was his time and it wasn’t out of the blue but I feel sad. He wasn’t perfect but he was always a kind and loving grandpa to me.

 

I'm so sorry for your family's loss @fantasynerd .

 

So sorry for your loss

 

I’m sorry for your loss FN.

 

Sending you so much love FN.

 

I’m sorry, FN. Even when you know it’s someone’s time, it’s still natural to feel the pain of what’s been lost.

 

I’m sorry for your loss.