Listen there’s never an excuse for those kinds of comments. How are people still doing this?! Wtf lady. I hope her mortification keeps her from ever making that mistake again. I feel you on normally not giving a fuck but then feeling unexpectedly kind of shitty though. Generally I just DGAF because like you said, I carried and birthed and fed a child so if my body changed as a result, so be it. But damn if jeans shopping last week didn’t have me almost in tears. Ugh.