Most of my married friends are pretty awesome, but I have a few that I'm surprised aren't on the Bee. For example, friend got engaged in December and she's getting married in October, on a Friday. She's been calling me almost daily to talk about this wedding. I guess she thinks that because I'm getting married soon that I must always want to talk about weddings. I don't want to talk about my own wedding so no, I don't want to talk about hers. She's currently pissed because she wants to have a pot luck reception because she can't afford food and no one thinks it's a good idea. Most of her guests are going to have to drive two or three hours to get to the wedding and she also expects them to bring a casserole or no one gets to eat. I suggested a dessert reception, but dammit it's her wedding and she doesn't want to do just dessert. If all you can afford is a cake and some punch, then have cake and punch. No one is going to want to go buy you a gift and make the food for your reception. She also has become a fan of sending out a bunch of passive aggressive Facebook messages in regards to those who've said they can't take off work to come. Because her wedding is the most important thing ever.