I just had a quick question and didn't want to hijack other threads that had been started for specific chicken's upcoming weddings. I know a few chickens are still planning weddings so it might be helpful to have a thread for questions and advice from people who haven't drank the wedding Kool Aid that is apparently a prerequisite on the Bee before answering a simple question. I am assembling our invites and have read elsewhere that other people numbered the RSVPs on the back in case guests didn't write their names on the card (some even crazy enough to do it in invisible ink because OMJG don't want the guests to see it!) Did anyone actually do this or have problems with anonymous RSVPs? We are having our wedding in Florida which everyone will have to travel for and already know a lot of people we are inviting won't come (I think we invited about 140 and are hoping at least 40-50 will come) so if we have a lot of anonymous responses I don't want to have to pester people by trying to contact them again if they are coming or not.