Daycare Drama

Discussion in 'The Hens' Nest' started by CoolWife, Apr 19, 2016.

  1. Apples&Oranges

    Apples&Oranges Chicken

    *before they're even born, sometimes, if you want those coveted infant spots.
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  2. RogueLlama

    RogueLlama Chicken

    I put E on the waitlist at several paces for this fall when I was 20 weeks pregnant. Our first choice has an opening for November. The waitlist was over a year. It’s totally insane.
  3. Fitz

    Fitz Leslie Knope Monster

    I was reading the thumbnail of an article about the disparities between the guidance department in one of Boston's nicest suburbs vs. one of its least nice suburbs, and wondered to myself "what would a world look like if schools were resourced equitably?" Sigh.
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  4. MagnificentCat

    MagnificentCat Chicken

    France. Look up Parisian crèches. I wish we did this.
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  5. Zombie Llama

    Zombie Llama Ain't no corn bitch

    I have read that it is very hard to get your child into one, and that the amount of children per worker are double compared to the US.
  6. A. Ham

    A. Ham Chicken

    Ugh yeah, I've probably mentioned here before but the one at the uni A works at, which if we're both working when we have kids is where we'd want them to go, says you have to contact them as soon as the pregnancy is confirmed. Absolutely insane.
  7. CoolWife

    CoolWife Chicken

    Inspired by this I asked at ours. They have infant spots for next June.
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  8. Zoomzoom

    Zoomzoom Old Curmudgeon

    Yeah we contacted the centre near us in January and was told the waitlist is 1-1.5 years long.
  9. CoolWife

    CoolWife Chicken

    That’s a little more acceptable in a country where you could be on leave for a year. I’d have to go back after 12 weeks max.
  10. Comet

    Comet Chicken

    And that 12 weeks is only if you're lucky enough to be covered by FMLA. Many, many people aren't.
  11. CoolWife

    CoolWife Chicken

    Oh def. I’m V privileged that my employer offers it and I can afford to be without pay for part of it.
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  12. whatchyagonnado

    whatchyagonnado Chicken

    My mom was just telling me this is a huge issue in Nashville (guess it was on the news). Some of the places are at 3 year waitlists.
  13. nym711

    nym711 THIS IS MY LIFE NOW

    We are seeing a lot of people move into our area, so it's the 1-3 year old spots that are really hard to get into. Infants also have a long waiting list. E didn't move into her Infant II class (it's supposed to be an 8 month old to a year old classroom) until a few days before her first birthday. Back then, she didn't have that biting problem and lacked opinions so they loved having her in the baby class. They kept her in Infant II for about three months, and she got into Toddler I before a lot of the other older kids to try to help her out with biting.

    E seems to be doing well in Toddler I over all though. She seems to be making friends in there, and not just school space acquaintances.
    Last edited: Sep 19, 2019
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  14. HBC

    HBC Chicken

    Yep. So many transplants don’t have family nearby to help with childcare, but also with wages not really matching housing cost increases, staying home is also not an option.
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  15. moose

    moose RINGWORM GIRL :(

    Guess I should start looking at daycares now? I’m wanting her to start around 1.5.
  16. RoryGilmore

    RoryGilmore Chicken

    @moose Honestly, we got lucky with it. We enrolled C in a daycare riiiight before I had back surgery that miraculously had an immediate space available, and signed her up for a more limited preschool back in February. And, we live in a popular area.

    My best advice would be to sign up for a local mom FB group now and see what’s up. It also couldn’t hurt to do some research now, just to see if there are certain places that look nicer than others.
  17. ClamJam

    ClamJam Chicken

    Infant care here is really competitive. A year is usual for the wait list and the places that are less than that aren't places you'd want to leave your babby.

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