I am struggling. I shouldn't even be thinking about this yet, we never even discussed our son's name until I was something like 24 weeks. I have an overwhelming feeling it's a girl. The only name I feel super attracted to is Ava and it is incredibly overdone, especially in Michigan. I am entertaining Nola, but I feel like it sounds weird. We had discussed it when I was pregnant the first time very briefly, because we were married in NOLA. I also love Noelle, but I feel like that's a mouthful of a first and last name, and prefer the spelling of Noel, but that would include those dots (blanking on the name.) There's so many of us pregnant... please commiserate on names with me. Why is this so hard?